Christian Singles Group in Denver Metro Colorado and C470 Suburbs - Never married, Single-Again, Divorced, Widowed, 30s, 40s, 50s

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  • WHO? This ministry serves HUNDREDS of single and single-again Christian adults from more than 100 churches from the Denver Metro area and beyond.  We are serving adults in their 30s, 40s, and 50s+ who are single, widowed, or and who are looking for like-minded Christians who share their beliefs and values.    We serve people in Colorado through our weekly event in the Denver metro area, and we serve others around the country and across the world by making our online teaching handouts, audio podcasts, and videos freely available for their personal, group, or church use.

  • WHAT? This is a Christ-Centered, Word-Based, and God-Honoring ministry that helps single and single-again adults grow in their Christian faith, fellowship, and friendships in this season of their life.  We are a place to believe, a place to belong, and a place to become.

  • WHY? Many single and single-again Christians in their 30s, 40s, and 50s+ attend churches that are unable to provide a vibrant and healthy ministry to serve them in this season of their life.  This multi-church community-wide singles ministry that is offered on a Tuesday night allows singles to connect with others while still staying  involved in their own church.  For some single adults who do not attend church at this time, this ministry is a place that helps them on their spiritual journey to become a Christian or to rediscover their Christian faith.

  • WHEN?  Every Tuesday night from 6:00-8:30 we offer a catered meal, inspirational message, and a small group table discussion mixer.  When we started in November we had 30 and now we are averaging about 250 people every Tuesday.  The at-the-door price for every Tuesday event is $5 and RSVP's are required.

  • SIZE? The group started in November with 30 people and has grown to around 250 people from over 100 churches meeting each week - - but since everyone meets together at tables of 8 for dinner and small group discussions after the message, it has a non-threatening and friendly feel that allow people to meet and get to know others in a comfortable setting.

  • MAIN LOCATION? This community-wide multi-church ministry is led and hosted by Mission Hills Church at 620 SouthPark Drive in Littleton, CO. Some people are coming or car-pooling from Breckenridge/Mountains, Boulder & North Denver area, East Side of the Denver Metro, Colorado Springs/El Paso County, Castle Rock, and Parker/SE side of Denver metro.

  • OTHER LOCATIONS IN COLORADO, ACROSS THE UNITED STATES, OR IN COUNTRIES AROUND THE WORLD?  We allow anyone, any church, or any group to gather single and single-again people for a meal and then to FREELY use our video teaching, handouts, and small group discussion questions.  We also allow people to send our teaching materials to friends they have anywhere in the world.  To grow a group of like-minded Christian singles, we encourage people to organize and promote their group using Meetup.com (click here for the web presence we created).
  • OTHER EVENTS and SOCIAL ACTIVITIES? We will be offering large and small social events, outings, activities, retreat, conference, trips, and service projects in the coming 12 months.  All of our officially sponsored gatherings will be non-alcoholic events.

  • EMAIL MAILING LIST?  To be notified about our weekly gatherings and any events we offer, individuals must sign up by going to the "JOIN US" button in the upper right hand corner at www.meetup.com/Singles-Single-Again-Christians-in-Denver-c470-Suburbs/

  • WHAT WE ARE NOT! This ministry is NOT a crisis-centered support group, not a counseling ministry, not a recovery group, not a meet-market, not a speed-dating service, not a Christian dating site, and we are not a business networking group to actively promote people's business/activities or to look for prospects/contacts. If these are the things you are looking for, we encourage you to find other groups that will meet these needs.  Here are some websites that may be of help to you: www.DivorceCare.org, www.GriefCare.org, www.celebraterecovery.com www.MyWidowsWalk.com, www.AffairRecovery.com, www.MeetUp.com, www.DenverSocial.com, RecoveryAfterDivorce.com, and www.thebondedfamily.com / www.SmartStepFamilies.com (for those who remarry).

  • SAFE PLACE? In order to create a safe and healthy place for Christian singles to gather for fellowship, teaching, and friendship, we review people's available public online information to make sure they are not actively engaging in any unhealthy behaviors that could be harmful to our group or any of its members.  We also have a "Member-Alert" system.  If a current member sees a new person coming that they have personal knowledge (first hand or from other group/church connections) has exhibited unhealthy behaviors or activities that could be harmful to our group or upsetting to any of our members, a "Member-Alert" can be sent to the leaders with specific details.  In some cases, we reserve the right to delete the new person's name from our member list and ask them not to return to the group without providing specific details (especially if details may put  someone's emotional or physical safety in jeopardy) .  In other cases, we will temporarily dismiss the new person from our member list and alert them that a "Member-Alert" has been sent in and we will offer to provide further details and allow for their response before a final decision will be made if the person is invited back into the group (with conditions) or if they will be permanently suspended from the group.  Refusal to respond to the "Member-Alert" alert dismissal email followed by any attempt to return to the group will result in a permanent suspension from the group.   Our group does have a security team forming and any individuals who have a "Member-Alert" status who attempt to come to Tuesday nights or any of our social outings will immediately be asked to leave the premises.

  • PROMOTION OF OTHER GROUPS, ACTIVITIES, BUSINESSES, MINISTRIES, OR PRODUCTS: With our growing ministry, we are being approached by a variety of churches and groups to promote their events, activities, and ministries through our Tuesday night gathering and email list.  Recently, we sent out the following email to everyone in our group:  “We have been told that some people were using the Tuesday night gathering to actively promote other singles events, their company products or services, and ministry materials.  We have many people approaching us to promote "their" stuff at our events and gatherings, but we have asked them not to do this.  Please alert us if you experience this happening at your table discussions.  Note: It's okay for people to talk about their interests, activities, ministry, or work - - but we ask people not actively try to distribute their business cards, products, materials, or promotional flyers to everyone at the table and/or at other tables.”  If you want to promote your singles group or singles activities online, we suggest you see if your event can be posted on the calendar at www.denversocial.com.

  • LEADERSHIP?  The co-organizers for this group are DR. BRIAN KLUTH - Pastor, Bestselling Author, and Speaker and JANE STOLZ - Singles Ministry & Divorce Recovery Leader with 20 years of experience.  Jane and Brian attend Mission Hills Church and are accountable to the pastoral staff at Mission Hills Church.

  • CONTACT INFORMATION: Jane Stolz Email, Brian Kluth Email  

  

Jane Stolz | Email     Brian Kluth | Email  

SHORT VIDEO OF OUR VALENTINE'S TUESDAY NIGHT

SOCIAL EVENT WITH 270 PEOPLE...

 

OTHER HELPFUL MINISTRIES & RESOURCES:

  • VIDEO FOR PASTORS/CHURCHES: In many churches, single and single-gain adult Christians feel like they are invisible and ignored.  Here's a helpful video for singles, pastors, and church leaders to learn more about the importance of ministering to singles.

     

     

 

 

MOST POPULAR HANDOUTS & VIDEOS

BRIAN KLUTH's most popular teaching...

  • Friends with Boundaries (NOT Benefits): 9 Phases of Healthy Christ-Centered Male Female Relationships   Handout     Video

  • What does the Bible Teach?  GOD'S WORD on SEX for SINGLES    Handout

  • 5 Tips for Christian Singles: God's Sanity for Singles in an Insane World  Handout  Video Mp3

  • DANIEL: 5 Bible Truths for Godly Success & Satisfaction as a Single  Handout    Video

  • Looking for a Future Marriage Partner?  Jane & Brian's Sample Lists  Handout

  • Paul's Pointers for Singles: HOW TO RISE ABOVE Your Circumstances (book of Philippians) Handout  Video

JANE STOLZ's most popular teaching (coming soon)

 

WEEKLY MESSAGES: VIDEO, HANDOUTS, AUDIO

 

4/17/12 - Brian Kluth's "JOSEPH: Living for an Audience of ONE - 5 Ways to Live Focused as a Single" (Part 1 of 2):

* Click for HANDOUT, Group Discussion Questions, and Mixer    

* Click for HANDOUT on God's WORD about Sex When Dating

* VIDEO COMING SOON.

 

4/10/12 - Brian Kluth's "Single-Again Adult at the Well: The God Who Sees You, Knows You, and Loves You" - 

* Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions 

VIDEO: Our apologies, due to technical difficulties we do not have a video for this message.

 

4/3/12 - Brian Kluth's "Paul's Pointers for Singles: HOW TO RISE ABOVE Your Circumstances (book of Philippians)"

* Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

* Video (see below)

 

3/27/12 Jane Stolz's "Landmines & Lifelines for Singleness & Dating - Handling Conflict" - Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

 

3/20/12 Brian Kluth's "DANIEL: 5 Bible Truths for Godly Success & Satisfaction as a Single"  Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

 

3/13/12 Jane Stolz's "Landmines & Lifelines for Singleness & Dating"  Part 4 (video below) Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

 

3/6/12 Jane Stolz's "Landmines & Lifelines for Singleness & Dating"  Part 3 (video below)  Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

 

2/28/12 Jane Stolz's "Landmines & Lifelines for Singleness & Dating"  Part 2 (video below) Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

 

2/21/12 Jane Stolz's "Landmines & Lifelines for Singleness & Dating"  Part 1 (video below) Click for HANDOUT & Group Discussion Questions

 

Q&A Panel Discussion (video below) with Brian Kluth, Jane Stolz, and Pastor Mike & Jane Romberger from Missions Hills Church - "Q&A Session on Men, Women, Sexuality, Dating, and Relationships"

 

 

#5 of 5 (below): Jan 31 - Brian Kluth's "5 Tips for Christian Singles: God's Sanity for Singles in an Insane World"  Secondary title: "God's Ancient Wisdom for Singles in Our Modern World"

#4 of 5 (below): Jan 24 - Brian Kluth's "FUN STUFF TO KNOW: 15 God-Given Differences Between Men and Women"

#3 of 5 (below): Jan 17 - Brian Kluth's "Friends with Boundaries & Blessings (NOT Benefits!) - 9 Phases of Healthy Christ-Centered Male and Female Relationships":

#2 of 5 (below): Jan 10 - Brian Kluth's "10 Keys to Real Life & Real Relationships"

#1 of 5 (below): JAN 3 - Brian Kluth's "Brian's Testimony, 10 Operating Systems, & 6 Worldly Ways to Handle Being Single"

DEC SERIES - Jane Stolz's "Keys to Healthy Relationships" -   HANDOUTS

 

NOV SERIES - Brian Kluth's  "Experience God as Your Provider"  HANDOUTS

 

RECOMMENDED TEACHING VIDEOS:

ANDY STANLEY's The New Rules for Love, S/x, and Dating  

 

TOMMY NELSON's teaching from the Song of Solomon: